In Rehab and Recovery

No, not me. My writing.

Check out the most recent samples of the writing opportunities God has brought to me on Recovery.org and Rehabs.com.

I’ve been so busy writing for other sites, I’ve been neglecting my own, so I thought I’d simply share what I’ve been doing elsewhere.

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The Undeniable Benefits Of Pets In Recovery

12 Clean and Sober Pain Management Techniques

Choose A Rehab – Close To Home Or Far Away?

Blessed to be writing for Recovery Brands!

 

 

Cheers To My Dad

Thinking of my dad today – Edward Lee Jones 11/14/43-5/19/10

One of my fond memories of him is laughing together as we stayed up late to watch Cheers (and usually munch on Little Debbies.) I’m planning to travel to Boston this summer, and will be thinking of him again when I visit the real Cheers and the show replica.

The following scene is particularly memorable, as one of our favorites. We both found it really funny, and would bring it up occasionally, to laugh again.

My dad had a great sense of humor. He could tell a story, crack a joke, or simply act goofy and easily make me (and others) laugh. I miss him, but am grateful for the many laughter-filled memories.

Thanks for all the smiles, Dad.

Still love you with all my heart, bricks, and blood.

Bridal Shower Gift Idea

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Bride’s Bookmark

I sat down to write a personal message in the greeting card I would be giving the bride at her shower, and decided I wanted to include a Bible verse relating to marriage. Proverbs 31 (The Wife of Noble Character section) seemed like an appropriate passage. The problem was, I could not decide on a portion of this scripture, and it was too long to fit on the card if entirely written out. My solution? Create a personalized gift with this entire passage printed out, to include with my store-bought present. What gift? A bookmark would work nicely.

Out came the supplies:

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I chose a piece of cardstock with a pattern I thought appropriate, and colored printer paper that complemented the pattern. In my scrapbooking supplies, I found a template to use for the shape (but extended the length.)

To create your own bridal bookmark:

  •  Type out the verse/message you want to use – Print on plain paper first to check sizing for your template.
  •  Print out the verses/message on the colored paper you’ve chosen. Tip: Use her wedding colors.
  •  Cut card stock and print-out to size and shape desired. Use template or customize.
  •  Using scrapbooker’s adhesive, attach the print-out to the card stock.
  •  Using a single hole punch, create a hole in the top for the string.
  •  Cut string much longer than desired length to have plenty to work with, loop trough hole, and tie off.
  • Make additional loop to create three pieces for braiding. Braid string and tie off end, leaving extra length     for the tassel.

Voila! Simple, inexpensive, yet personalized and meaningful gift for the bride-to-be.

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When the Penguin Talks Back

Picture a cute little penguin in a red ball cap, carrying a blue lunch box. This is Petra, a character I created for one of my children’s books. I sent him on an adventure, during which his encounters include an octopus searching for eight shoes, a juggling walrus with only one tusk, and a giggling pirate.

What if one day, as I was reading over this story, Petra decided to offer some feedback? What if he jumped off the page, turned to me, opened his beak, and out came the following:

“Hey, why do I have to wear a red hat? I really prefer orange. And what’s with the lunch of three fish? You couldn’t have made it five? Why is it that I have to meet those pirates? I was really scared for a minute there. What’s up with that walrus anyway? She’s so annoying! Couldn’t you have given me easier friends to be around? Oh, and this igloo I travel in is a bit small, and a skylight would have been nice. What were you thinking when you wrote all this?”

I imagine my response would go something like this:

“Seriously? I created you. I’m the author. Who are you to question me? I have the right to do whatever I want with your story. I didn’t even have to provide you with a lunch. I could have let those pirates eat you instead of laugh with you and give you treasure. I could make you swim your entire journey instead of giving you a nice igloo and iceberg for your travels. Besides, I knew how I wanted your story to end before I even wrote one word, and knew the best situations to craft to get you there. Most importantly, don’t you realize I could have chosen to not create you at all? Or, even now, I could hit that delete key and say goodbye to Petra. I won’t though, because I love your character, and want to share you with others, and even write additional books about more adventures. I have not given up on you, and continue to shape your story and submit you to publishers, despite the heartache from rejection letters. I believe you are worth it. Wouldn’t it be awesome if children read about you, grew to love you, and your stories made me the household name Dr. Seuss is? My perspective from out here is a bit bigger than yours. Try to remember who’s the pen and who’s the penguin. Remember, I can do all this, because it’s actually my story, not yours.”

I’m thankful for this insight into our relationship with the Lord. How quick are we to question our creator, the author of our salvation? How quick are we to doubt His goodness? Question his methods? Complain about his writing? God, please forgive us for our pride, our self-righteousness, our self-centeredness, our doubt. Help us seek your glory as you write our story. Thank you for speaking to this writer in a way she can understand. Help us all remember:

Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith. Hebrews 12:2

And having been perfected, He became the author of eternal salvation to all who obey Him, Hebrews 5:9

See also Job 38-41